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Feeling Anxious or Worried?

Email us.

If there's something on your mind that is troubling or worrying you, particularly out of school time, you can email worried@oakleyprimary.academy. Someone from our safeguarding team will help you.

If you are worried about a child, please see our page, "Safeguarding at Oakley Primary."

If you are a parent who wants to seek advice or support, please see our page, "Advice, Support and Useful Links."

Below is a range of Health and Wellbeing Support services to choose from if you feel you need to. There is also a list of useful apps linked to wellbeing and self-help, as well as some coping strategies that may be helpful in difficult situations.

Health and Wellbeing Support

CAMHS Live

Support with feelings of Depression, Anxiety, Self-harming, Suicidal thoughts, Stressed

www.nhft.nhs.uk/camhslive

Young Minds

Crisis Messenger

Text

 YM 

to

 85258

Childline

Online, on the phone help about all areas of concern. Website is full of useful information

0800 1111

 www.childline.org.uk

VOICE

Victim of theft, robbery, attacks, abuse, violence, harassment, or stalking?

0300 3031965

NHS

For your mind, for your body – support for all areas

www.nhs.uk

NSPCC

National Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children

0808 800 5000 (Free)

Samaritans

Support for people in crisis

08457 909090

Kooth

Free safe and online support for young people

Kooth.com

CHUMS

Mental health and emotional well-being to support children

CHUMS Website

phone: 01525 863924

email: info@chums.uk.com

Apps To Download for Self-Help

Clear fear 

(part of STEM)

Clear Fear is a free app to help children and young people manage the symptoms of anxiety.

Combined Minds 

(part of STEM)

Combined Minds is a free app to help families and friends provide mental health support.

What’s Up

Use the positive and negative habit tracker to maintain your good habits.

Mind Shift

Mind Shift stresses the importance of changing how you think about anxiety. Think of this app as the cheerleader in your pocket, encouraging you to take charge of your life, ride out intense emotions, and face challenging situations.

Happify

The Happify app is your fast-track to a good mood. Try various engaging games, activity suggestions, gratitude prompts and more to train your brain as if it were a muscle, to overcome negative thoughts.

Strategies to Help You

Relaxation.

Controlled breathing and progressive muscle relaxation (examples below):

  • Rectangular Breathing – using windows, doors, picture etc. Breathe in and out deeply as your eyes follow the rectangle.
  • 7-11 Breathing - in for 7, out for 11, or as long as you can manage. The outbreath is your friend when stressed, or not feeling stressed. It brings oxygen to your heart and brain, which we need more than ever when under pressure.
  • Mindfulness Colouring - colouring a picture / number colouring book.

Thinking about something good.

Example: sit and draw a picture about a time you really enjoyed, such as a holiday.

 What were you doing? What could you see? Who were you with? What were you wearing? What could you smell?

Leaving a situation.

Leaving the room and coming back later

Talking to someone.

Talking to someone, including assertiveness and seeking advice and support

Mental games.

Practice mental games to shift your attention (2-3 minutes):

  • Alphabet games (naming someone famous for each pair of initials: AB, BC, CD
  • Category games: naming as many categories within 2 minutes (vegetables, flavour of ice creams etc).
  • Memory games: naming all the teachers in the school
  • Rhyming games: listing as many rhyming words within 2 minutes